{"id":925,"date":"2008-05-07T09:41:32","date_gmt":"2008-05-07T15:41:32","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.quechilero.com\/blog\/2008\/05\/07\/los-hijos-se-van\/"},"modified":"2008-05-07T09:41:32","modified_gmt":"2008-05-07T15:41:32","slug":"los-hijos-se-van","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/quechilero.com\/blog\/2008\/05\/07\/los-hijos-se-van\/","title":{"rendered":"Los Hijos se van&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Hay que aceptarlos con esa condici\u00f3n,<br \/>\nhay que criarlos con esa  idea,<br \/>\nhay que asumir esa realidad.No es que se van&#8230;<br \/>\nes que la vida se los lleva.<\/p>\n<p>Ya no eres su centro.<br \/>\nYa no eres propietario, eres consejero.<br \/>\nNo  diriges, aceptas.<br \/>\nNo mandas, acompa\u00f1as.<br \/>\nNo proyectas, respetas.<\/p>\n<p>Ya necesitan otro amor,<br \/>\notro nido y otras perspectivas.<\/p>\n<p>Ya les crecieron alas y quieren volar.<br \/>\nYa les crecieron las ra\u00edces y  maduraron por dentro.<br \/>\nYa les pas\u00f3 las borrascas de la adolescencia y tomaron  el tim\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>Ya miraron de frente la vida y sintieron el llamado,<br \/>\npara vivirla por su  cuenta.<\/p>\n<p>Ya saben que son capaces de las mayores aventuras,<br \/>\ny de la m\u00e1s completa  realizaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>Ya buscar\u00f3n un amor,<br \/>\nque los respete,<br \/>\nque quiera compartir sin temores  ni angustias<br \/>\nlas altas y las bajas en el camino,<br \/>\nque les endulce el  recorrido<br \/>\ny los ayude en el fin que quieren conseguir.<\/p>\n<p>Y si esa primera experiencia fue equivocada,<br \/>\ntendr\u00e1n la sabidur\u00eda y las  fuerzas para soltarlas,<br \/>\nas\u00ed, otro amor les llegar\u00e1<br \/>\npara compartir sus  vidas en armon\u00eda.<\/p>\n<p>Ya no les caben las ra\u00edces en tu maceta,<br \/>\nni les basta tu abono para  nutrirse,<br \/>\nni tu agua para saciarse,<br \/>\nni tu protecci\u00f3n para vivir.<\/p>\n<p>Quieren crecer en otra dimensi\u00f3n,<br \/>\ndesarrollar su  personalidad,<br \/>\nenfrentar el viento de la vida,<br \/>\nal asombro del amor<br \/>\ny al  rendimiento de sus facultades.<\/p>\n<p>Tienen un camino y quieren explorarlo.<br \/>\nLo importante es que sepan  desandarlo.<\/p>\n<p>Tienen alas y quieren abrirlas.<br \/>\nLo importante es que sean limpias,<br \/>\nde  un vuelo alto y de conciencia recta.<\/p>\n<p>Tienen juventud y quieren vivirla.<br \/>\nLo importante es el coraz\u00f3n  sensible,<br \/>\nla libertad asumida y la pasi\u00f3n a flor de piel.<\/p>\n<p>Que la rienda sea con responsabilidad,<br \/>\ny la formaci\u00f3n, llena de luz.<\/p>\n<p>T\u00fa quedas adentro.<br \/>\nEn el cimiento de su edificio,<br \/>\nen la ra\u00edz de su \u00e1rbol,<br \/>\nen la corteza de su estructura,<br \/>\nen lo profundo de su coraz\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>T\u00fa quedas atr\u00e1s.<br \/>\nEn la estela luminosa que deja el barco al partir.<br \/>\nEn  el beso que le mandas.<br \/>\nEn el pa\u00f1uelo que lo despide.<br \/>\nEn la oraci\u00f3n que lo  sigue.<br \/>\n\u00bfEn la l\u00e1grima que los acompa\u00f1a!<\/p>\n<p>T\u00fa quedas siempre en su interior,<br \/>\naunque cambies de lugar.<\/p>\n<p><strong><em>Zenaida Bacardi de Argamasilla<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><!--~-|**|PrettyHtmlStart|**|-~--><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Hay que aceptarlos con esa condici\u00f3n, hay que criarlos con esa idea, hay que asumir esa realidad.No es que se van&#8230; es que la vida se los lleva. 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