{"id":518,"date":"2007-04-13T15:56:14","date_gmt":"2007-04-13T21:56:14","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.quechilero.com\/blog\/2007\/04\/13\/homenaje-a-la-mujer\/"},"modified":"2007-04-13T15:56:14","modified_gmt":"2007-04-13T21:56:14","slug":"homenaje-a-la-mujer","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/quechilero.com\/blog\/2007\/04\/13\/homenaje-a-la-mujer\/","title":{"rendered":"Homenaje a la Mujer"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Dicen que, a cierta edad, las mujeres nos hacemos invisibles, que nuestro protagonismo en la escena de la vida declina, y que nos volvemos inexistentes para un mundo en el que s\u00f3lo cabe el \u00edmpetu de los a\u00f1os j\u00f3venes.<\/p>\n<p>Yo no s\u00e9 si me habr\u00e9 vuelto invisible para el mundo, es muy probable, pero nunca fui tan consciente de mi existencia como ahora; nunca me sent\u00ed tan protagonista de mi vida, y nunca disfrut\u00e9 tanto de cada momento de mi vida.<\/p>\n<p>Descubr\u00ed que no soy una princesa de cuento de hadas; descubr\u00ed al ser humano que sencillamente soy, con sus miserias y sus grandezas.<\/p>\n<p>Descubr\u00ed que puedo permitirme el lujo de no ser perfecta, de estar llena de defectos, de tener debilidades, de equivocarme, de hacer cosas indebidas, de no responder a las expectativas de los dem\u00e1s. Y, apesar de ello, quererme mucho.<\/p>\n<p>Cuando me miro al espejo ya no busco a la que fu\u00ed en el pasado? sonr\u00edo a la que soy HOY?. me alegro del camino andado, y asumo mis contradicciones.<\/p>\n<p>Siento que debo saludar, a la joven que fui, con cari\u00f1o, pero dejarla ?a un lado?, porque ahora me estorba. Su mundo de ilusiones y fantas\u00eda ya no me interesa.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a1Qu\u00e9 bien no sentir ese desasosiego permanente que produce correr tras los sue\u00f1os!<\/p>\n<p>La vida es tan corta y el oficio de vivirla es tan dif\u00edcil, que cuando uno comienza a aprenderlo, ya hay que morirse.<\/p>\n<p>El ser humano tarda mucho en madurar, \u00bfverdad? TENER-RETENER. Las realidades m\u00e1s grandes y m\u00e1s bellas tanto m\u00e1s las tendr\u00e1s cuanto menos las poseas y retengas.<\/p>\n<p>Si quieres tener el mar, cont\u00e9mplalo, y abre tus manos en sus aguas, y todo el mar estar\u00e1 en ellas. Porque si cierras tus manos para retenerlo, se quedar\u00e1n vac\u00edas.<\/p>\n<p>Si quieres tener un amigo peregrino, d\u00e9jalo marchar y lo tendr\u00e1s? porque si lo retienes para poseerlo, lo estar\u00e1s perdiendo, y tendr\u00e1s un prisionero.<\/p>\n<p>Si quieres tener el viento, extiende tus brazos, abre tus manos y todo el viento ser\u00e1 tuyo, porque si quieres retenerlo, te quedar\u00e1s sin nada.<\/p>\n<p>Si quieres tener a tu hijo, d\u00e9jalo crecer, d\u00e9jalo partir y que se aleje? lo tendr\u00e1s maduro a su regreso, porque si lo retienes pose\u00eddo, lo pierdes para siempre.<\/p>\n<p>Si quieres tener el sol y gozar de su luz maravillosa, abre los ojos y contempla? porque si los cierras para retener la luz que ya alcanzaste, te quedar\u00e1s a oscuras.<\/p>\n<p>Si quieres vivir el gozo de Tener, lib\u00e9rate de la man\u00eda de poseer y retener. Goza de la mariposa que revolotea, goza del r\u00edo que corre huidizo.<\/p>\n<p>Goza de la flor que se abre cara al cielo. Goza teniendo todo, sin poseerlo y sin retenerlo.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00f3lo as\u00ed gozar\u00e1s de la vida, sabiendo que la tienes sin poseerla, y dej\u00e1ndola correr sin retenerla.<\/p>\n<p><em>Como un homenaje a ti Kiki<\/em>. TQM<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Dicen que, a cierta edad, las mujeres nos hacemos invisibles, que nuestro protagonismo en la escena de la vida declina, y que nos volvemos inexistentes para un mundo en el que s\u00f3lo cabe el \u00edmpetu de los a\u00f1os j\u00f3venes. Yo no s\u00e9 si me habr\u00e9 vuelto invisible para el mundo, es muy probable, pero nunca &#8230; <a title=\"Homenaje a la Mujer\" class=\"read-more\" href=\"https:\/\/quechilero.com\/blog\/2007\/04\/13\/homenaje-a-la-mujer\/\" aria-label=\"Leer m\u00e1s sobre Homenaje a la Mujer\">Leer m\u00e1s<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"advanced_seo_description":"","jetpack_seo_html_title":"","jetpack_seo_noindex":false,"episode_type":"","audio_file":"","cover_image":"","cover_image_id":"","duration":"","filesize":"","date_recorded":"","explicit":"","block":"","filesize_raw":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[2],"tags":[11,29,12,67,63,54,20,56,41,24],"series":[],"class_list":["post-518","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-limones","tag-amigo","tag-aprender","tag-cosas","tag-crecer","tag-debilidades","tag-kiki","tag-mujer","tag-sueno","tag-verdad","tag-vida"],"episode_featured_image":false,"episode_player_image":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/quechilero.com\/blog\/imagenes\/podcast.png?fit=1831%2C1831&ssl=1","download_link":"","player_link":"","audio_player":false,"episode_data":{"playerMode":"dark","subscribeUrls":{"amazon":{"key":"amazon","url":"","label":"Amazon","class":"amazon","icon":"amazon.png"},"apple_podcasts":{"key":"apple_podcasts","url":"","label":"Apple Podcasts","class":"apple_podcasts","icon":"apple-podcasts.png"},"castbox":{"key":"castbox","url":"","label":"CastBox","class":"castbox","icon":"castbox.png"},"deezer":{"key":"deezer","url":"","label":"Deezer","class":"deezer","icon":"deezer.png"},"google_podcasts":{"key":"google_podcasts","url":"","label":"Google Podcasts","class":"google_podcasts","icon":"google-podcasts.png"},"listen_notes":{"key":"listen_notes","url":"","label":"Listen Notes","class":"listen_notes","icon":"listen-notes.png"},"pandora":{"key":"pandora","url":"","label":"Pandora","class":"pandora","icon":"pandora.png"},"podbean":{"key":"podbean","url":"","label":"Podbean","class":"podbean","icon":"podbean.png"},"podcast_republic":{"key":"podcast_republic","url":"","label":"Podcast Republic","class":"podcast_republic","icon":"podcast-republic.png"},"rss":{"key":"rss","url":"","label":"RSS","class":"rss","icon":"rss.png"},"spotify":{"key":"spotify","url":"","label":"Spotify","class":"spotify","icon":"spotify.png"},"stitcher":{"key":"stitcher","url":"","label":"Stitcher","class":"stitcher","icon":"stitcher.png"},"tunein":{"key":"tunein","url":"","label":"TuneIn","class":"tunein","icon":"tunein.png"},"youtube":{"key":"youtube","url":"","label":"YouTube","class":"youtube","icon":"youtube.png"},"iheartradio":{"key":"iheartradio","url":"","label":"iHeartRadio","class":"iheartradio","icon":"iheartradio.png"},"ivoox":{"key":"ivoox","url":"","label":"iVoox","class":"ivoox","icon":"ivoox.png"}},"rssFeedUrl":"https:\/\/quechilero.com\/blog\/feed\/podcast\/si-la-vida-nos-da-limones","embedCode":"<blockquote class=\"wp-embedded-content\" data-secret=\"4GZz6OV4sw\"><a href=\"https:\/\/quechilero.com\/blog\/2007\/04\/13\/homenaje-a-la-mujer\/\">Homenaje a la Mujer<\/a><\/blockquote><iframe sandbox=\"allow-scripts\" security=\"restricted\" src=\"https:\/\/quechilero.com\/blog\/2007\/04\/13\/homenaje-a-la-mujer\/embed\/#?secret=4GZz6OV4sw\" width=\"500\" height=\"350\" title=\"\u00abHomenaje a la Mujer\u00bb \u2014 Si la Vida nos da Limones...\" data-secret=\"4GZz6OV4sw\" frameborder=\"0\" marginwidth=\"0\" marginheight=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\" class=\"wp-embedded-content\"><\/iframe><script>\n\/*! 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