{"id":495,"date":"2007-04-01T11:32:45","date_gmt":"2007-04-01T17:32:45","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.quechilero.com\/blog\/2007\/04\/01\/honestidad\/"},"modified":"2007-04-01T11:32:45","modified_gmt":"2007-04-01T17:32:45","slug":"honestidad","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/quechilero.com\/blog\/2007\/04\/01\/honestidad\/","title":{"rendered":"Honestidad"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>A veces debi\u00e9ramos concedernos un permiso fundamental: el permiso de ser nosotros mismos. No todos tienen este problema; pero hay quienes tienen una imagen de s\u00ed tan idealizada, elevada e irreal, que nunca pueden alcanzarla. Otros malgastan toda una vida esforz\u00e1ndose por llegar a ser lo que otras personas esperan de ellos; luego est\u00e1n aquellos que luchan con todas sus fuerzas por ganarse la aprobaci\u00f3n, el amor o la envidia de otros. 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