{"id":302,"date":"2006-10-29T19:04:32","date_gmt":"2006-10-30T01:04:32","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/quechilero.com\/blog\/2006\/10\/29\/temores\/"},"modified":"2006-10-29T19:04:32","modified_gmt":"2006-10-30T01:04:32","slug":"temores","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/quechilero.com\/blog\/2006\/10\/29\/temores\/","title":{"rendered":"Temores"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Pensar que no tenemos valor, que somos despreciados, abandonados&#8230; Pensar  que nada ser\u00e1 aprobado, que no lograremos obtener un nuevo trabajo porque no lo  merecemos&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Tener miedo al rechazo&#8230; Tener miedo a la vida&#8230; Esconderse&#8230; Suicidarse  socialmente&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Tenemos que arriesgarnos y enfrentar todas las situaciones. No todos nos  aceptar\u00e1n, como nosotros tampoco aceptaremos a todas las personas que  conozcamos.<\/p>\n<p>Dejemos de suponer que no nos aceptan porque somos gordos, feos, delgados,  etc&#8230; etc&#8230; Dejemos de escaparnos.<\/p>\n<p>No siempre vamos a ganar, pero si aprendemos a escuchar a los dem\u00e1s y podemos  exponernos a un NO sin hacernos da\u00f1o, sin deprimirnos, sin perder las fuerzas,  estaremos rompiendo ese h\u00e1bito que tanto nos da\u00f1a: El miedo al rechazo.<\/p>\n<p>Arriesgarse a todo, a ganar y a perder: Arriesgarse.<\/p>\n<p>No nos quedemos mirando c\u00f3mo juegan los otros&#8230; \u00a1participemos en ese  juego!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Pensar que no tenemos valor, que somos despreciados, abandonados&#8230; Pensar que nada ser\u00e1 aprobado, que no lograremos obtener un nuevo trabajo porque no lo merecemos&#8230; Tener miedo al rechazo&#8230; Tener miedo a la vida&#8230; Esconderse&#8230; Suicidarse socialmente&#8230; Tenemos que arriesgarnos y enfrentar todas las situaciones. 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