{"id":301,"date":"2006-10-30T19:04:36","date_gmt":"2006-10-31T01:04:36","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/quechilero.com\/blog\/2006\/10\/30\/bobby-el-tira-palos\/"},"modified":"2006-10-30T19:04:36","modified_gmt":"2006-10-31T01:04:36","slug":"bobby-el-tira-palos","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/quechilero.com\/blog\/2006\/10\/30\/bobby-el-tira-palos\/","title":{"rendered":"Bobby, el tira palos"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Las personas tienen s\u00f3lo dos alternativas cuando se trata de sus emociones:  las controlan o \u00e9stas les controlan.<\/p>\n<p>Esto no significa que para ser un buen jugador de equipo tiene que ignorar  sus sentimientos. Pero s\u00ed quiere decir que no va a permitir que sus sentimientos  le impidan hacer lo que debe hacer o cosas que no deber\u00eda hacer.<\/p>\n<p>Un ejemplo cl\u00e1sico de lo que puede ocurrir cuando una persona no disciplina  sus emociones puede verse en la vida de la leyenda del golf, Bobby Jones.<\/p>\n<p>Como hoy d\u00eda Tiger Woods, Jones fue un prodigio jugando golf. Empez\u00f3 a jugar  en 1907 a los cinco a\u00f1os de edad. Cuando ten\u00eda doce, marc\u00f3 bajo par, algo que la  mayor\u00eda de los golfistas no logran durante toda una vida jugando. A los catorce,  calific\u00f3 para el equipo amateur de los Estados Unidos.<\/p>\n<p>Pero Jones no gan\u00f3 esa competencia. Su problema se puede describir mejor con  el sobrenombre que le pusieron: el \u00abtira palos\u00bb. A menudo, Jones perd\u00eda la  compostura y con ella, su habilidad de jugar bien.<\/p>\n<p>Un golfista m\u00e1s viejo a quien Jones llamaba abuelo Bart le dijo un d\u00eda: \u00abNo  podr\u00e1s ganar mientras no controles tu temperamento\u00bb.<\/p>\n<p>Jones escuch\u00f3 el consejo y empez\u00f3 a trabajar para controlar sus  emociones.<\/p>\n<p>A los veinti\u00fan a\u00f1os, Jones floreci\u00f3 y se convirti\u00f3 en uno de los m\u00e1s grandes  golfistas de la historia, retir\u00e1ndose a los veintiocho a\u00f1os despu\u00e9s de haber  ganado el Grand Slam del golf.<\/p>\n<p>Este comentario del abuelo Bart resume la situaci\u00f3n: \u00abBobby ten\u00eda catorce  cuando logr\u00f3 controlar el deporte del golf, pero ten\u00eda veinti\u00fan a\u00f1os cuando  logr\u00f3 controlarse a s\u00ed mismo\u00bb.<\/p>\n<p><strong><em>Del libro \u00abLas 17 Cualidades Esenciales de un Jugador de Equipo\u00bb,  de John C. 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