{"id":19924,"date":"2015-03-16T08:00:15","date_gmt":"2015-03-16T14:00:15","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/quechilero.com\/blog\/?p=19924"},"modified":"2015-02-24T12:35:48","modified_gmt":"2015-02-24T18:35:48","slug":"hablar-complicado","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/quechilero.com\/blog\/2015\/03\/16\/hablar-complicado\/","title":{"rendered":"Hablar complicado"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Hablar \u00aben dif\u00edcil\u00bb, muchas veces s\u00f3lo conduce a confundir hechos o situaciones que quieren taparse, como para evitar temas candentes. Hablar complicado muchas veces altera el circuito de la comunicaci\u00f3n con el fin de confundir al receptor.<\/p>\n<p>Debemos observar a qui\u00e9n o a qui\u00e9nes est\u00e1 dirigido el mensaje y si realmente nos interesa dialogar de verdad con esas personas. Es ah\u00ed donde realmente existe un feedback. Esa verdadera retroalimentaci\u00f3n que hace que lleguemos a un acuerdo, una soluci\u00f3n, un encuentro maravilloso y verdadero con el otro.<\/p>\n<p>Hablemos claro o callemos. Muchas veces el silencio tiene mucha m\u00e1s connotaci\u00f3n que mil palabras rebuscadas y carentes de sentido. Hablemos claro y con personas que est\u00e9n en nuestra sinton\u00eda; de lo contrario, la comunicaci\u00f3n nunca dejar\u00eda de existir, pero se basar\u00eda en contenidos vac\u00edos de significado y muchas veces (casi siempre) contradictorios y generadores de discordia. S\u00f3lo el verdadero di\u00e1logo es conector de ideas que se vinculan con un fin, un acuerdo mutuo.<\/p>\n<p>Hablemos claro, empleando los t\u00e9rminos adecuados. 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