{"id":19842,"date":"2015-02-20T08:00:42","date_gmt":"2015-02-20T14:00:42","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/quechilero.com\/blog\/?p=19842"},"modified":"2015-01-27T11:20:45","modified_gmt":"2015-01-27T17:20:45","slug":"saber-vivir-es-no-estar-solo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/quechilero.com\/blog\/2015\/02\/20\/saber-vivir-es-no-estar-solo\/","title":{"rendered":"Saber vivir es no estar solo"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Hace much\u00edsimos a\u00f1os, un joven reci\u00e9n casado estaba sentado en un sof\u00e1 en un d\u00eda caluroso y h\u00famedo, bebiendo jugo helado, durante una visita a su padre.<\/p>\n<p>Mientras conversaba sobre la vida, el matrimonio, las responsabilidades y las obligaciones de las personas adultas, el padre revolv\u00eda pensativamente los cubos de hielo de su vaso y lanz\u00f3 una mirada clara y sobria hacia su hijo.<\/p>\n<p>\u00abNunca olvides a tus amigos\u00bb, le aconsej\u00f3, \u00abser\u00e1n m\u00e1s importantes en la medida en que vayas envejeciendo. Independientemente de cu\u00e1nto ames a tu familia y los hijos que por ventura vayas a tener, t\u00fa siempre necesitar\u00e1s de amigos. Recuerda ocasionalmente salir con ellos, realiza actividades con ellos, telefon\u00e9ales.\u00bb<\/p>\n<p>\u00ab\u00a1Que extra\u00f1o consejo!\u00bb, pens\u00f3 el joven. \u00abAcabo de ingresar al mundo de los casados, soy adulto y con seguridad, mi esposa y la familia que iniciaremos ser\u00e1n todo lo que necesito para dar sentido a mi vida.\u00bb<\/p>\n<p>Con todo, \u00e9l obedeci\u00f3 a su pap\u00e1; mantuvo contacto con sus amigos y anualmente aumentaba el n\u00famero de ellos. Con el pasar de los a\u00f1os, \u00e9l fue comprendiendo que su padre sab\u00eda de lo que hablaba. En la medida en que el tiempo y la naturaleza realizan sus designios y misterios en un hombre, los amigos resultaron baluartes de su vida.<\/p>\n<p>Pasados los 50 a\u00f1os de vida, he aqu\u00ed lo que aprendi\u00f3:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>El tiempo pasa.<\/li>\n<li>La vida contin\u00faa.<\/li>\n<li>La distancia separa.<\/li>\n<li>Los ni\u00f1os crecen.<\/li>\n<li>Los hijos dejan de ser ni\u00f1os y se independizan.<\/li>\n<li>Los empleos van y vienen.<\/li>\n<li>Las ilusiones, los deseos, la atracci\u00f3n, el sexo, se debilitan.<\/li>\n<li>Las personas no hacen lo que deber\u00edan hacer.<\/li>\n<li>El coraz\u00f3n se rompe.<\/li>\n<li>Los abuelos y padres mueren.<\/li>\n<li>Los colegas olvidan los favores.<\/li>\n<li>Las carreras terminan.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Mas los verdaderos amigos siempre est\u00e1n ah\u00ed, no importa a cu\u00e1nto tiempo o a cuantos kil\u00f3metros se encuentren.<\/p>\n<p>Un amigo nunca est\u00e1 m\u00e1s distante que el alcance de una necesidad, haciendo barra por ti, interviniendo a tu favor, esper\u00e1ndote con los brazos abiertos o bendiciendo tu vida.<\/p>\n<p>Cuando iniciamos esta aventura llamada vida, no sab\u00edamos de las incre\u00edbles alegr\u00edas o tristezas que estaban delante. No sab\u00edamos cu\u00e1nto necesitar\u00edamos unos de otros. Ama a tu familia, a tus padres, cuida a tus hijos, a tus nietos, pero mant\u00e9n un grupo de buenos amigos.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Hace much\u00edsimos a\u00f1os, un joven reci\u00e9n casado estaba sentado en un sof\u00e1 en un d\u00eda caluroso y h\u00famedo, bebiendo jugo helado, durante una visita a su padre. 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