{"id":17721,"date":"2014-02-03T08:00:31","date_gmt":"2014-02-03T14:00:31","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/quechilero.com\/blog\/?p=17721"},"modified":"2014-01-27T10:44:28","modified_gmt":"2014-01-27T16:44:28","slug":"el-amor-ciego","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/quechilero.com\/blog\/2014\/02\/03\/el-amor-ciego\/","title":{"rendered":"El amor ciego"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>En One Woman&#8217;s Liberation, Shirley Boone escribe:<\/p>\n<p><em>\u00a1Hablemos del amor ciego! Cuando Pat y yo nos casamos estaba tan enamorada que no me encontraba en mis cabales. Pat afirm\u00f3 en algunas entrevistas que nos hab\u00edamos casado bien conscientes de los importantes ajustes que deb\u00edamos hacer y de las crisis financieras que \u00edbamos a enfrentar, pero esa era su propia opini\u00f3n.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>En lo que a m\u00ed respecta, no era consciente de nada excepto de que era maravilloso y que la vida sin \u00e9l ser\u00eda terrible.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Entiendo muy bien c\u00f3mo Mar\u00eda, la reina de Escocia, se debe haber sentido cuando dijo de James Bothwell, su tercer marido: \u00abYo lo seguir\u00eda hasta el fin del mundo en enaguas\u00bb, pues eso mismo sent\u00eda yo por Pat.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Si lo hubiera sugerido, hubiera seguido a Pat hasta Tombuct\u00fa sin siquiera pesta\u00f1ear. Era mi vida. Para m\u00ed, era perfecto y eso fue el inicio de nuestros problemas porque cualquier persona ubicada en un pin\u00e1culo solo puede ir en una direcci\u00f3n: hacia abajo.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Shirley y Pat Boone lucharon con sus diferencias para crear un fuerte y duradero matrimonio, pero el principio de su verdadero \u00e9xito como pareja vino cuando cada uno reconoci\u00f3 esta verdad esencial: NADIE ES PERFECTO.<\/p>\n<p>Se nos ha criado con la idea del pr\u00edncipe azul y la cenicienta, y encontramos muchos j\u00f3venes que no han podido establecerse con una pareja, por esa b\u00fasqueda del hombre o la mujer perfecta. Vemos c\u00f3mo hoy en d\u00eda hay m\u00e1s divorcios, porque nos casamos pensando que todo iba a ser color de rosa, y a la primera prueba tiramos la toalla.<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfC\u00f3mo podemos pedir perfecci\u00f3n?, si nosotros mismos no somos perfectos.<\/p>\n<p>Cuando comprendamos esta idea tan simple, encontraremos ese amor y tranquilidad en el ser amado.<\/p>\n<p>Nada vence el amor a primera vista, excepto el amor con discernimiento.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>En One Woman&#8217;s Liberation, Shirley Boone escribe: \u00a1Hablemos del amor ciego! Cuando Pat y yo nos casamos estaba tan enamorada que no me encontraba en mis cabales. Pat afirm\u00f3 en algunas entrevistas que nos hab\u00edamos casado bien conscientes de los importantes ajustes que deb\u00edamos hacer y de las crisis financieras que \u00edbamos a enfrentar, pero &#8230; <a title=\"El amor ciego\" class=\"read-more\" href=\"https:\/\/quechilero.com\/blog\/2014\/02\/03\/el-amor-ciego\/\" aria-label=\"Leer m\u00e1s sobre El amor ciego\">Leer m\u00e1s<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"advanced_seo_description":"","jetpack_seo_html_title":"","jetpack_seo_noindex":false,"jetpack_seo_schema_type":"","episode_type":"","audio_file":"","podmotor_file_id":"","podmotor_episode_id":"","cover_image":"","cover_image_id":"","duration":"","filesize":"","filesize_raw":"","date_recorded":"","explicit":"","block":"","_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[2],"tags":[15,18,9,20,59,41,24],"series":[],"class_list":["post-17721","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-limones","tag-amor","tag-hombre","tag-idea","tag-mujer","tag-pareja","tag-verdad","tag-vida"],"episode_featured_image":false,"episode_player_image":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/quechilero.com\/blog\/imagenes\/podcast.png?fit=1831%2C1831&ssl=1","download_link":"","player_link":"","audio_player":false,"episode_data":{"playerMode":"dark","subscribeUrls":{"amazon":{"key":"amazon","url":"","label":"Amazon","class":"amazon","icon":"amazon.png"},"apple_podcasts":{"key":"apple_podcasts","url":"","label":"Apple Podcasts","class":"apple_podcasts","icon":"apple-podcasts.png"},"castbox":{"key":"castbox","url":"","label":"CastBox","class":"castbox","icon":"castbox.png"},"deezer":{"key":"deezer","url":"","label":"Deezer","class":"deezer","icon":"deezer.png"},"google_podcasts":{"key":"google_podcasts","url":"","label":"Google Podcasts","class":"google_podcasts","icon":"google-podcasts.png"},"listen_notes":{"key":"listen_notes","url":"","label":"Listen Notes","class":"listen_notes","icon":"listen-notes.png"},"pandora":{"key":"pandora","url":"","label":"Pandora","class":"pandora","icon":"pandora.png"},"podbean":{"key":"podbean","url":"","label":"Podbean","class":"podbean","icon":"podbean.png"},"podcast_republic":{"key":"podcast_republic","url":"","label":"Podcast Republic","class":"podcast_republic","icon":"podcast-republic.png"},"rss":{"key":"rss","url":"","label":"RSS","class":"rss","icon":"rss.png"},"spotify":{"key":"spotify","url":"","label":"Spotify","class":"spotify","icon":"spotify.png"},"stitcher":{"key":"stitcher","url":"","label":"Stitcher","class":"stitcher","icon":"stitcher.png"},"tunein":{"key":"tunein","url":"","label":"TuneIn","class":"tunein","icon":"tunein.png"},"youtube":{"key":"youtube","url":"","label":"YouTube","class":"youtube","icon":"youtube.png"},"iheartradio":{"key":"iheartradio","url":"","label":"iHeartRadio","class":"iheartradio","icon":"iheartradio.png"},"ivoox":{"key":"ivoox","url":"","label":"iVoox","class":"ivoox","icon":"ivoox.png"}},"rssFeedUrl":"https:\/\/quechilero.com\/blog\/feed\/podcast\/si-la-vida-nos-da-limones","embedCode":"<blockquote class=\"wp-embedded-content\" data-secret=\"9j7jepMRjh\"><a href=\"https:\/\/quechilero.com\/blog\/2014\/02\/03\/el-amor-ciego\/\">El amor ciego<\/a><\/blockquote><iframe sandbox=\"allow-scripts\" security=\"restricted\" src=\"https:\/\/quechilero.com\/blog\/2014\/02\/03\/el-amor-ciego\/embed\/#?secret=9j7jepMRjh\" width=\"500\" height=\"350\" title=\"\u00abEl amor ciego\u00bb \u2014 Si la Vida nos da Limones...\" data-secret=\"9j7jepMRjh\" frameborder=\"0\" marginwidth=\"0\" marginheight=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\" class=\"wp-embedded-content\"><\/iframe><script>\n\/*! 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