{"id":17675,"date":"2014-01-21T08:00:57","date_gmt":"2014-01-21T14:00:57","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/quechilero.com\/blog\/?p=17675"},"modified":"2014-01-13T17:26:26","modified_gmt":"2014-01-13T23:26:26","slug":"contradicciones","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/quechilero.com\/blog\/2014\/01\/21\/contradicciones\/","title":{"rendered":"Contradicciones"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Hace alg\u00fan tiempo escuch\u00e9 una de las frases m\u00e1s contradictorias que jam\u00e1s haya o\u00eddo. Mientras estaba en un caf\u00e9, leyendo y preparando los \u00faltimos detalles para mi ponencia en una convenci\u00f3n, la letra de una canci\u00f3n pegadiza capt\u00f3 mi atenci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>\u00abTurf\u00bb, conjunto musical argentino de creciente fama, coreaba: \u00abpara saber lo que es amar hay que perder la libertad, y para m\u00ed eso no se llama amor&#8230;\u00bb.<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfEh? \u00bfC\u00f3mo? \u00bfEscuch\u00e9 bien? Juego de palabras; an\u00e1lisis sem\u00e1ntico; interpretaci\u00f3n libre&#8230; ll\u00e1melo como usted desee. Pero para m\u00ed se trata, ni m\u00e1s ni menos, que de una total, deliberada y consciente contradicci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>Es que en todos los \u00e1mbitos ocurre algo similar:<\/p>\n<p>Sabemos que la honestidad es el camino, pero muchas veces optamos por permitirnos \u00abpeque\u00f1as concesiones\u00bb&#8230; (que en el fondo son \u00abpeque\u00f1as corrupciones\u00bb).<\/p>\n<p>Conocemos el valor de invertir tiempo en nuestras familias, pero estamos \u00abtan atareados\u00bb que utilizamos nuestras casas como si fueran meros \u00abhoteles\u00bb de paso&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Entendemos que para alcanzar grandes objetivos hay que sacrificarse, pero en incontables ocasiones preferimos el hedonismo, alcanzando s\u00f3lo \u00abplaceres\u00bb inmediatos&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Comprendemos que el amor es una decisi\u00f3n, pero vez tras vez lo disfrazamos de pasiones y sentimientos vol\u00e1tiles, accediendo a satisfacciones pasajeras sin llegar a disfrutar el gozo que produce la fidelidad y la entrega permanente&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>En fin, por lo general sabemos qu\u00e9 es lo mejor para nuestras vidas, pero de manera muy frecuente nos contentamos con \u00abjugar a la existencia\u00bb, postergando nuestros sue\u00f1os, transando nuestras ilusiones y frustrando nuestros destinos.<\/p>\n<p>Hoy quiero captar su atenci\u00f3n y animarlo a que dedique este fin de semana para examinar su vida, reafirmar sus valores y reestructurar el orden de sus prioridades. No basta con saber qu\u00e9 es lo mejor para usted&#8230; hace falta ir m\u00e1s all\u00e1 y tomar decisiones que dirijan sus pasos hacia el \u00e9xito que tanto anhela. Si sabemos&#8230; \u00a1debemos poner manos a la obra!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Hace alg\u00fan tiempo escuch\u00e9 una de las frases m\u00e1s contradictorias que jam\u00e1s haya o\u00eddo. Mientras estaba en un caf\u00e9, leyendo y preparando los \u00faltimos detalles para mi ponencia en una convenci\u00f3n, la letra de una canci\u00f3n pegadiza capt\u00f3 mi atenci\u00f3n. \u00abTurf\u00bb, conjunto musical argentino de creciente fama, coreaba: \u00abpara saber lo que es amar hay &#8230; <a title=\"Contradicciones\" class=\"read-more\" href=\"https:\/\/quechilero.com\/blog\/2014\/01\/21\/contradicciones\/\" aria-label=\"Leer m\u00e1s sobre Contradicciones\">Leer m\u00e1s<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"advanced_seo_description":"","jetpack_seo_html_title":"","jetpack_seo_noindex":false,"jetpack_seo_schema_type":"","episode_type":"","audio_file":"","podmotor_file_id":"","podmotor_episode_id":"","cover_image":"","cover_image_id":"","duration":"","filesize":"","filesize_raw":"","date_recorded":"","explicit":"","block":"","_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[2],"tags":[15,5,24],"series":[],"class_list":["post-17675","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-limones","tag-amor","tag-tiempo","tag-vida"],"episode_featured_image":false,"episode_player_image":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/quechilero.com\/blog\/imagenes\/podcast.png?fit=1831%2C1831&ssl=1","download_link":"","player_link":"","audio_player":false,"episode_data":{"playerMode":"dark","subscribeUrls":{"amazon":{"key":"amazon","url":"","label":"Amazon","class":"amazon","icon":"amazon.png"},"apple_podcasts":{"key":"apple_podcasts","url":"","label":"Apple Podcasts","class":"apple_podcasts","icon":"apple-podcasts.png"},"castbox":{"key":"castbox","url":"","label":"CastBox","class":"castbox","icon":"castbox.png"},"deezer":{"key":"deezer","url":"","label":"Deezer","class":"deezer","icon":"deezer.png"},"google_podcasts":{"key":"google_podcasts","url":"","label":"Google Podcasts","class":"google_podcasts","icon":"google-podcasts.png"},"listen_notes":{"key":"listen_notes","url":"","label":"Listen Notes","class":"listen_notes","icon":"listen-notes.png"},"pandora":{"key":"pandora","url":"","label":"Pandora","class":"pandora","icon":"pandora.png"},"podbean":{"key":"podbean","url":"","label":"Podbean","class":"podbean","icon":"podbean.png"},"podcast_republic":{"key":"podcast_republic","url":"","label":"Podcast Republic","class":"podcast_republic","icon":"podcast-republic.png"},"rss":{"key":"rss","url":"","label":"RSS","class":"rss","icon":"rss.png"},"spotify":{"key":"spotify","url":"","label":"Spotify","class":"spotify","icon":"spotify.png"},"stitcher":{"key":"stitcher","url":"","label":"Stitcher","class":"stitcher","icon":"stitcher.png"},"tunein":{"key":"tunein","url":"","label":"TuneIn","class":"tunein","icon":"tunein.png"},"youtube":{"key":"youtube","url":"","label":"YouTube","class":"youtube","icon":"youtube.png"},"iheartradio":{"key":"iheartradio","url":"","label":"iHeartRadio","class":"iheartradio","icon":"iheartradio.png"},"ivoox":{"key":"ivoox","url":"","label":"iVoox","class":"ivoox","icon":"ivoox.png"}},"rssFeedUrl":"https:\/\/quechilero.com\/blog\/feed\/podcast\/si-la-vida-nos-da-limones","embedCode":"<blockquote class=\"wp-embedded-content\" data-secret=\"qLYeTqdfzu\"><a href=\"https:\/\/quechilero.com\/blog\/2014\/01\/21\/contradicciones\/\">Contradicciones<\/a><\/blockquote><iframe sandbox=\"allow-scripts\" security=\"restricted\" src=\"https:\/\/quechilero.com\/blog\/2014\/01\/21\/contradicciones\/embed\/#?secret=qLYeTqdfzu\" width=\"500\" height=\"350\" title=\"\u00abContradicciones\u00bb \u2014 Si la Vida nos da Limones...\" data-secret=\"qLYeTqdfzu\" frameborder=\"0\" marginwidth=\"0\" marginheight=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\" class=\"wp-embedded-content\"><\/iframe><script>\n\/*! 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