{"id":14628,"date":"2012-10-12T08:00:10","date_gmt":"2012-10-12T14:00:10","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/quechilero.com\/blog\/?p=14628"},"modified":"2012-10-12T08:00:10","modified_gmt":"2012-10-12T14:00:10","slug":"comparte-el-dolor","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/quechilero.com\/blog\/2012\/10\/12\/comparte-el-dolor\/","title":{"rendered":"Comparte el dolor"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>De la forma en que los amigos de Job trataron de consolarlo aprendemos un principio b\u00e1sico sobre lo que es consolar a los dem\u00e1s cuando sufren: la capacidad de ayudar de un consolador no est\u00e1 tanto en su talento para usar las palabras, sino en su capacidad de ser solidario. Esa es la comprensi\u00f3n que Job anhelaba cuando sus amigos trataron de corregirlo.<\/p>\n<p>El Dr. Paul Brand ha expresado esta verdad hermosamente en su libro \u00abLa obra maestra de Dios\u00bb. \u00c9l escribe: Cuando pregunto a mis pacientes \u00ab\u00bfqui\u00e9n le ayud\u00f3 en su sufrimiento?\u00bb, escucho una respuesta extra\u00f1a e imprecisa. La persona descrita raras veces tiene respuestas suaves y una personalidad alegre y efervescente. Es una persona callada, comprensiva, que escucha m\u00e1s de lo que habla, que no juzga y ni siquiera ofrece mucho consejo. \u00abLa sensaci\u00f3n de paciencia.\u00bb \u00abAlguien que estaba presente cuando lo necesit\u00e9.\u00bb \u00abUna mano que tomar.\u00bb \u00abUn abrazo comprensivo y perplejo.\u00bb \u00abUn nudo en la garganta compartido.\u00bb<\/p>\n<p>A veces, al esforzarnos tanto para decir lo correcto olvidamos que el lenguaje de los sentimientos habla mucho m\u00e1s alto que nuestras palabras. Hay momentos en que lo mejor que podemos hacer es \u00abllorar con los que lloran\u00bb (Romanos 12:15).<\/p>\n<p>El primer paso para ayudar a otros en sus angustias es compartir su dolor.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>De la forma en que los amigos de Job trataron de consolarlo aprendemos un principio b\u00e1sico sobre lo que es consolar a los dem\u00e1s cuando sufren: la capacidad de ayudar de un consolador no est\u00e1 tanto en su talento para usar las palabras, sino en su capacidad de ser solidario. 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