{"id":10472,"date":"2011-09-26T08:00:20","date_gmt":"2011-09-26T14:00:20","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/quechilero.com\/blog\/?p=10472"},"modified":"2011-09-26T08:00:20","modified_gmt":"2011-09-26T14:00:20","slug":"aflojar-abonar-y-regar-y-cuidar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/quechilero.com\/blog\/2011\/09\/26\/aflojar-abonar-y-regar-y-cuidar\/","title":{"rendered":"Aflojar, abonar y regar, y cuidar"},"content":{"rendered":"<p id=\"yui_3_2_0_1_1315238395988413\">Hay que aprender a percibir las necesidades de los dem\u00e1s. Habr\u00e1, qui\u00e9n, dentro de la familia, demande mayor atenci\u00f3n, y habr\u00e1 otro que no tenga la capacidad de expresar dicha necesidad de atenci\u00f3n, habr\u00e1 otro, quiz\u00e1, que para \u00e9l lo m\u00e1s importante sea saber que alguien se preocupa por \u00e9l.<\/p>\n<p>La familia es el campo f\u00e9rtil donde se pueden sembrar valores tales como la comunicaci\u00f3n, comprensi\u00f3n, empat\u00eda, generosidad y por ende el AMOR.<\/p>\n<p>Este trabajo es de los padres y conlleva muchos esfuerzos: aflojar (arrancar de ra\u00edz ego\u00edsmos), abonar y regar (de repetir y vivir lo ense\u00f1ado) y cuidar (estar al pendiente de las necesidades de los hijos) para asegurarse de que los frutos sean buenos.<\/p>\n<p>Es un trabajo de todos los d\u00edas tanto del padre como de la madre.<\/p>\n<p id=\"yui_3_2_0_1_1315238395988417\"><strong id=\"yui_3_2_0_1_1315238395988423\"><em id=\"yui_3_2_0_1_1315238395988422\">Patricia L. 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